Membership
What it costs.
One membership, a few introductions at a time, and dates that actually happen. Here is exactly what you pay and what you get.
Men$249/ month
Membership, billed monthly.
- Your application read by a person
- One-time private ID verification
- A few AI-matched introductions at a time
- Invite your matches to real dates
- Every date booked and arranged by VAELA
Women$0
No membership fee and no date fees.
- Your application read by a person
- One-time private ID verification
- A few AI-matched introductions at a time
- Dates arranged, venue booked for you
- Nothing to pay, ever, for membership or dates
Per booked date$30
When you set a date and time, VAELA books the venue for you. The $30 booking applies to every booked date.
Food and drinks are paid at the venue. Women pay no date fees.
Example month
Membership$249
2 booked dates$60
Total$309
Food and drinks at the venue not included.
Reviewed
Not everyone gets in.
A person reads every application. Acceptance is not guaranteed.
Verified
Every member is ID-verified.
You verify once. Your ID stays private and is never shown to other members.
Private
What happens here stays here.
Screenshots are against the rules and can mean immediate removal without refund. Members must be 18 or older.